The Upbringing

The issue with situations as simple as scolding children for dirty clothes is the underlying fact that it seems to be irrelevant if during that process they were genuinely happy. Can you wholeheartedly say they do not believe that clean clothes matter more than enjoying themselves? They were playing and laughing, they got dirty and the moment was ruined by an overreaction -sometimes consisting of poorly chosen words- which if regular, becomes an internalized anxiety that appears regardless of your eventual reaction, whatever that might be. Do you take issue with honestly asking yourself if the purity of your desire for the children's well-being comes secondary to their appearance? Can you wholeheartedly say they realize it? Children deserve to be shown the love they birthed in us. Instead of taking it for granted, we can grant them the opportunity to have this love expressed in real-life situations` not just in theory. What a greater world this becomes, when young generations associate pleasure and fun with acceptance and understanding, at any given moment of everyday life. 

Even with the simplest of issues, which

after all, shape our sense of reality.